Amy's husband deploys for months at a time, so she discusses the 5 things you should never say to a military spouse.
1. "You must be used to this"
2. Do you worry about his safety"
3. "My spouse travels for work too. I totally know what you're going thru"
4. "Wow, you must miss him"
5. How do you go such a long time without.... (being physical)"
When Amy's husband gets deployed he sends her flowers and Bobby a stick.