The Four Things That Ruin Relationships

Dr. John Gottman and researchers at the University of Washington have come up with what they call “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse,” which they say can predict the end of a pairing with 93%  certainty.

The four indicators are:  

  • Criticism –This is not the same as feedback, instead it isn’t constructive and usually focuses on things like  personality, character, or interests, where as feedback deals with a  specific action or behavior you’d like to see changed.  
  • Contempt – This involves comments specifically  designed to insult, or show disrespect towards someone. Often it derives  from a lack of interest in another person, so the experts suggest  trying to find some common ground to keep your interest.

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